Comments on: Dating Preferences – Children or No Children http://singlesisterspeak.wordpress.com/2008/10/24/dating-preferences-children-or-no-children/ The Modern Life of the Single Sister Tue, 10 Nov 2009 20:23:29 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Shelia http://singlesisterspeak.wordpress.com/2008/10/24/dating-preferences-children-or-no-children/#comment-342 Shelia Thu, 30 Oct 2008 00:45:43 +0000 http://singlesisterspeak.wordpress.com/?p=80#comment-342 Good topic. I don't have any kids but it doesn't bother me if the man has one or two...at the most three...but if it's three, it should be by an ex-wife...not three seperate babies mommas. He should also be playing an active role in his kids lives---child support and if they live in the same city, he should be spending time with them. I can't be with a man who is not taking care of his kids. Good topic. I don’t have any kids but it doesn’t bother me if the man has one or two…at the most three…but if it’s three, it should be by an ex-wife…not three seperate babies mommas.
He should also be playing an active role in his kids lives—child support and if they live in the same city, he should be spending time with them. I can’t be with a man who is not taking care of his kids.

]]> By: Britt http://singlesisterspeak.wordpress.com/2008/10/24/dating-preferences-children-or-no-children/#comment-309 Britt Wed, 29 Oct 2008 15:28:45 +0000 http://singlesisterspeak.wordpress.com/?p=80#comment-309 Oops sorry Anitra. I meant Anitra not Mikki. Oops sorry Anitra. I meant Anitra not Mikki.

]]> By: Britt http://singlesisterspeak.wordpress.com/2008/10/24/dating-preferences-children-or-no-children/#comment-308 Britt Wed, 29 Oct 2008 15:27:52 +0000 http://singlesisterspeak.wordpress.com/?p=80#comment-308 I prefer not to date men with children. It's a STRONG preference (I can count on one hand how many times I have done it) for several reasons. 1) Like Mikki said, I want my first child birth experience with my husband to be special. You shouldn't date someone who wouldn't potentially be a mate. 2) Call me callous, but I really don't care about Big Head, Jr. I don't want to hear about his first day of school, learning to tie his shoe, or his first fishing trip. 3) I don't have children, so is it wrong for me to expect you to vigilantly use prophylactics? I did it, you could have too. 4) I have several friends with children and I know what the deal is. In my mind, you are still hitting your baby's mama. I prefer not to date men with children. It’s a STRONG preference (I can count on one hand how many times I have done it) for several reasons. 1) Like Mikki said, I want my first child birth experience with my husband to be special. You shouldn’t date someone who wouldn’t potentially be a mate. 2) Call me callous, but I really don’t care about Big Head, Jr. I don’t want to hear about his first day of school, learning to tie his shoe, or his first fishing trip. 3) I don’t have children, so is it wrong for me to expect you to vigilantly use prophylactics? I did it, you could have too. 4) I have several friends with children and I know what the deal is. In my mind, you are still hitting your baby’s mama.

]]> By: QB http://singlesisterspeak.wordpress.com/2008/10/24/dating-preferences-children-or-no-children/#comment-188 QB Fri, 24 Oct 2008 20:28:43 +0000 http://singlesisterspeak.wordpress.com/?p=80#comment-188 Awwww ya'll put up my post! I didnt even know that was gonna be today. :o) makin me smile. Its interesting to read the different reasons we do or do not want to date men w/ kids. Awwww ya’ll put up my post! I didnt even know that was gonna be today. :o ) makin me smile.

Its interesting to read the different reasons we do or do not want to date men w/ kids.

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