There are a lot of easy reasons why you might fall in love with someone, but what if those same things push you away, because you can’t talk? It could be their bright smile, long legs or make ice cream melt voice. But…what if there’s a huge problem there?
Let’s say there’s a lack of communication…how does that play into your relationship? OK…let me back up and explain a little about how I generally handle my relationships. First, I like to work on having a good friend in the person, cause well we are dealing with each other “on that level” so I kinda figure I might like to hang out around them. In fact, one of the best relationships I know of is between my uncle and aunt…and they call their marriage “the friendship”. Second, I like to know that if there’s a problem we can tackle it together…therefore making it a partnership. Now both of these things are ingredients to make a wonderful cake. Then you get that whole bumping and grinding thing and well…that’s the icing on the relationship cake.
Within that if there’s no communication between the two chefs then things will obviously become really messed up as one person might add too much and the other not enough. Furthermore, if we’re going to be positive and forward thinking let’s put all of us single folk in relationships…how do you communicate? Do you hold it all in? Let it out? Do you make it a point to communicate your wants and needs or make you partner figure it out? It’s all about the rules and games associated OR is it a go with the flow kinda thing?