As I was sitting in church on yesterday morning I was listening to the scripture which at the moment is not pertinent (though the Word is always important). Moving right along…one of the points made was that we as people (especially young people) do not know how to commit.
That’s right I said it.
Let’s examine this…we know how to make the decision to be with someone but do we understand what that really entails? This means…that when he’s living all up in Detroit and GM is like get your ish and be out, you do not complain and throw a fit. You simply have your man’s back. Men, this means that when she got your kids and has a rough day at work you don’t go out with the boys…you handle the house and let her decompress. See in all this you’ve made a decision to be committed…nothing more and nothing less.
Let’s clarify a thing or two though…sometimes…one person chooses to make the decision for both of you. This is a case where the representative was out-in other words you’ve been bamboozled. So…when the crap hits the fan…they forget to put on the mask and you see the real person. What do you do when this happens? Yesterday, Nic told us when to hold ’em and when to fold ’em…but how exactly how do you know whether it’s time to make a decision? Time to commit? And exactly what are the circumstances that will cause you to throw the deuces on your relationship? What are things we as men and women are willing to do to keep our partners happy and sane?
Let’s hear it.