Admin Note: This is the first installment of Letter for the Guy. Ladies feel free to email us and he’ll answer your questions.
“I’m 23 and still in the V-club. Every guy that is interested in me have turned me down due to my inexperience. I’m tempted to have a one-night stand or have sex with a male escort. How can I go about this? I’m starting to think my virginity is a curse and I’m pressed to lose it before I turn 24 next year. PLEASE help me out! This has really affected my self-esteem. I’m scared that I won’t get married because of this and I really want a family in the future. Thanks so much for your input.”
You hush up now!! I think that we have stumbled upon a treasure as precious as the Lost City of Atlantis or the Fountain of Youth. Or some other forgotten treasure. A virgin!!!!! I kid, I kid. I commend you for being to keep that V-card for this long. I’m sure you have had to fight off hundreds of sexual advances to do so. But now that you are 23, its become hard to lose it, huh?
Well, #1, don’t be pressed to lose the V-card. The first time you have sex SHOULD BE precious and I can assure you that it will be the one sexual experience that you will definitely remember for the rest of your life. I would even go so far to say that it will definitely affect the sex you will have for the next few years too.
#2, Guys that are interested in you are turning you down because they feel that you’re going to become really attached once you hand over the V-Card. They feel that you’re not going to know how to react once you receive the PUMPINGTON. Now if you want to have a one night stand or sex with escort, that’s all on you but I would highly recommend against it because its your first time (refer to #1).
#3, You’re definitely going to be able to find a husband, I don’t think you understand how many men are out there who wish they could find a virgin.
Words of advice, don’t put your virginity up as a display as I have seen many virgins do. This is going to force many guys to feel that they can’t reach the Wet Wet. They’re going to figure that many have tried and many have failed and that you set up ridiculous hurdles and barriers to maintain your virginity.
When the topic does finally come up, feel free to explain that you weren’t maintaining your virginity for any particular reason. You were just waiting for the right time or you never been in a situation where you had the opportunity to lose it. It is very much possible for you to be both a freak and a virgin and I think that would be something to play up.
All in all, if you really want to lose that V-card, you’ll lose it soon enough. Just don’t put your physical or mental health at risk to do so.
Anyone else? Any Ideas? Any other virgins look to shed the V and get some D (or P)?