Since Nicki covered the Lost Art of Dating yesterday I wanna talk about women and how they mess up the game in the dating world. First off, I wanna thank Ms. CBG for the comment (found below) that is the inspiration behind this post. Secondly, I want all the men and women here to know that chivalry is not dead. There’s a right and a wrong way to love and date someone (as well as good and bad, but I ain’t going to go into all that day)…without further ado…
“The problem i think in the dating world happened when women tried to be LESS to appeal to men MORE…like the lowest bidder..like “pick me, i don’t think im all that, im not a diva, im not high maintance, i barely even love myself.”Wonder why women do it??? Got a few suggestions:
1. A man is better than no man mentality.-My grandma used to talk about this. She used to say that a piece a man is better than no man at all cause at least he might be able to help you nail a nail. Now I loves me some ‘Liza Jane, but I am going to need to disagree (sorry Granny). The thing is I would rather “do bad all by myself” instead of suffering through your bullsh*t. If you cannot come home at night, I don’t want you. If we’re living together, and you cannot see fit to help me pay not one bill, then goodbye. Let’s face it ladies, we don’t even need men for se!xual pleasure or to procreate (you can just get his seed and keep it moving)
2. Some men have scared us to thinking there is a shortage.-There is not, I repeat NOT a man shortage. Almost everywhere I go I find young, educated brothers whom I believe are capable of loving a woman the right way and treating them properly. The problem is ladies keep hearing the phrase “there aren’t many men like me” . Ok…that’s nice but I need you to explain what makes you such a good man.
3. Daddy issues.That’s all I got immediately.-This one pretty much speaks for itself.
Now from my own life, I do this. I am completely guilty of not wearing make up and verbalizing the fact that I do am high maintenance. At this moment, I am ready to say I am definitely high maintenance, although I am not a diva…I can participate in and do things around dirt (I just choose not to)…
So now ladies and gentlemen…first I wanna know what are somethings you’ve done to portray yourself as less of something to gain someone of the opposite sex’s approval? Furthermore, what have you hidden that you are now ready to come out with whether they like it or not?