This post is written to you, girl or guy, who insists on calling phones more than once (honorable mention: if you send a text message after you call and didn’t get an answer). STOP DOING IT…. it’s obnoxious to the person you are calling (the CALLEE, if you will) and you look pathetic.
If it is not life or limb, or if something is not on fire, there is no reason to hound!!!!!! The callee received your call… You can make sure of this by leaving a message. If the callee wants to be bothered, they’d pick up the phone or call you back as soon as they are free. Calling repeatedly does nothing but put you on the “annoying” caller list… and you’ll never get a call answered, thus frustrating you both.
If a man or woman outright TELLS you that they don’t to be bothered (for any or an undisclosed amount of time) LEAVE THEM ALONE. Let him or her contact you… Do you think you can annoy a person into wanting you? I believe that if a person is interested in you or what you have to say, he or she is going to make sure you know about it.
And lastly, have some respect for yourself…. “Never make someone a priority in your life when you are only an option in theirs.” It is THIS SERIOUS!!!!!! (Holly’s last Friday’s Post, Why Men Withdraw from Relationships sparked a little of this. I need us to do better! ) You set the precedence for how someone treats you in the entire relationship. If you act PRESSED, you will be treated as such… like a throw away.
I will only call a person one time…. I’ll leave a message. If you don’t call back, it’s your loss. If you call back a week later, it’s too late, I’ve folded my hand. It’s over. This thing needs to be mutual. 😉
Does anyone disagree/ agree with me? What do you do as the callee? Or you guilty of over calling?