For a while, I didn’t want to talk about my relationship online…. I didn’t want to specifically say who “he” was, any of that. Call it overprotective, call it fear… but I did. I figured you guys could give us great insight And here it is -our first joint post, ever.
***Disclaimer: This happened a few months ago***
More Background here: SBM
J aka LastTrainToParis:
Ok ya’ll let me say this before I begin. I was new to the whole blogging thing so it was a shock to me. And I am a very private person most times.
Ok my thing was not what I read. But I had read far more detailed things on the blogs. My thing was why was she so offended?
If you can put all your business on the blog openly, with your face, and your contact information, why can’t you tell me about this situation. It’s not like I asked her about everything bc some stuff was clear. To me it shouldn’t be a problem. My thing was people if she is so sensitive about what she wrote then why do it publicly.
She says she blogs because its therapeutic and she wants to help others not make the same mistake. Okay I feel that. But here is my cloudy point…how is telling someone who you got banged by over a bathroom sink brushing your teeth helping someone or is therapeutic. Do you have so much sexual frustration built up that you need to recount your past escapades to make it through the day or was it done because everyone else was doing it? Anything I write I will answer whatever questions there are about it.
Yes I did say I don’t want to be That Guy. People judge other people by who they are with. We do it to celebrities and our everyday people. She with him knowing he was a hoe…he with her knowing she used to have trains run on her. We all do it or have done. No guy I know wants to be running around with the town freak talking about This My Queen n Shat. I never thought she was a freak/hoe otherwise she would not be my girl. Nor have I implied she was. I said perception could be she is that girl though.
Again ya’ll my infancy to blogging at the time of this led to most of this which is why my stance has changed. I don’t ask her about the blog stuff which is posted or commented anymore because I love her and don’t want it to be an issue because it bothers her. Would it bother you guys if someone asked you about something on the blog?
It wasn’t that I was offended… it was: why was he asking? If I am recalling the situation right, he wanted to know the month it’d happened (which made me think he was suspicious that I’d cheated and a NAME. I didn’t understand why any of that information concerned him… it wasn’t helping our situation. And honestly, I didn’t remember and didn’t want to do the legwork to find out. He’s mentioned that if he was another blogger and asked, I’d react differently…. that’s not the case, if another blog was asking for a specific month and name, they’d get a “nonya business,” real quick.