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Ink-Stained February – MY personal context for Black History Month February 1, 2010

Filed under: Single Sisters On... — inkognegro @ 8:14 am

Despite what my knees and back tell me, I am still a young man.  Cursory conversations with Grandmother (may she RIP) always  put to rest any ideas of reaching out to AARP for the privileges that come with membership.

But while I haven’t reached geezer status, I have accumulated a fair bit of tread on the tires and I have been around the block enough times to say I got a pretty good grasp on how the last 40some years have played out in the lives of Black folk.

And to say that it has been a historic period for Black folk is to greatly understate the bittersweet nature of the time.

Black folk have made a major come up in the past forty years.

Black folk have also woke up to find themselves on the Sole end of a foot in the ass from the the very institutions that coalesced to bring about the foundation  of an America that lives up to the true meaning of its creed.

You know, that whole “All men are created equal” stuff.

1968 Marked a watershed moment in my History, and when I say  MY History I mean the history of the American People which I have always considered myself a part of.

People have the whole notion of the Whys and wherefores of Black History all screwed up.

For the cheap nickel tour of Black History month feel free to get your Wiki on, I will deal with my own history with it.

While Black History Month has been in February as long as I have been in School, I have had the unique opportunity of having History be taught to me with ME included in it throughout my life.

No one ever tried to sell me that line about Columbus discovering America.

No one ever told me that Lincoln freed the Slaves.

No one ever told me that Martin had a dream and President Johnson made it  come true.

From the door of Pre-School in the projects of Pittsburgh; from the day I was Old enough to turn the channel and see the news; from the day my mother found out that I was clearly not the average 3 year-old when I took to phonics faster than I took to the potty, I was blessed with the real story.

The Tooth Fairy put a quarter under my pillow, but My mother showed me her invisible wings that protruded out of the back she carried our household on.

I always left cookies by the tree  for Santa Claus, but I knew my mother would be the one wiping the crumbs  from her chin in the middle of the night.

I was a child in the sense that my mother allowed me to maintain my innocence organically, but when real life intruded, she let it, but not without her watchful eye.

When i was 6 my bedtime was about 8:30, but for one week in January, 1977, I stayed up and watched Roots with my mother.

There was no ongoing commentary that I am aware of, just me, a precocious boy who had more brains than sense, and his mother, a woman of intelligence that no test could measure,  in the projects of Pittsburgh, PA, watching history unfold on a screen.

Momma Ink raised me as though God told her that life was going to be like this.  She left me in public schools that white folk would NEVER send their children to and those teachers taught me a history that apparently doesn’t get taught to most children.

She never missed a chance to send me somewhere to add on to the story.

We attended a church where the Pastor had a passion for the Word and a passion for the History of his people.

I emerged into adulthood with the full story.

I may have grown up in the shadows of the last gasp of the industrial revolution, under the cloud of a neighborhood that was strangled and then devoured by the the changing times, but I understood what was happening and why.

Maybe YOUR history was a tale told by the victors, but mine was told by the victims with the sweat of their labor, the blood of their Savior, and the Tears of joy in anticipation of the victory that time and diligence would bring, as surely as  it came in a different incarnation for them years ago.


6 Responses to “Ink-Stained February – MY personal context for Black History Month”

  1. Peyso Says:

    I hear you on this!! Especially when you speak about the school you attended. I attended a small, black run, baptist school. I learned black history from people who had a passion for it. I think learning it at such a early age informed me of my rightful place in this world and allowed me to hold on that forever.

    Just for the record, Black History Month started as Black History Week and was founded by my frat brother Carter G. Woodson. It wasnt given to us, we chose it, so we she stop all the “short month of the year” stuff. You can look up why he chose it though

  2. Sunny Says:

    Well alright, intelligent brothers.

    My black history knowledge and interests come from my mama. Sure, we had some info in school, but it was my mama who had me watching KET and the Roots.

  3. Mr.TramueL™ Says:

    Thanks for sharing. Great Post.

    @Peyso Thanks for disspelling the why did they make it the “Shortest Month” conspiracy theory.

  4. inkognegro Says:

    @peyso, one of the most unfortunate parts of BHM is the whole whining and complaining about the shortest month issue. My thing is if u make BH a permanent part of your life, it doesnt matter what month it is.

  5. Kasey Says:

    Great post!!

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