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Ink-Stained Mondays : More than a Pretty Face March 15, 2010

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As someone who has made a living watching people date (and mate) for the past 20 years, I have had a front row seat for the evolution of dating.  A particularly fascinating turn of events is the this notion that just being fine is enough for men.

*record skip*

Once upon a time, when a man took a woman who was viewed as an Extremely Attractive woman out on a date, there was a chance you would get a statue.  A vision of lovliness who is a joy to behold, but not particularly interested in engaging a date, but loathe to turn down the free food.

But hey, They Fine.  So, Dudes, being the visual creatures we are purported to be, Let that slide. We Endure boredom for the sake of the arm candy of it all.

Is this to say that all Pretty women are boring?  Don’t be SILLY.  But many are.

And the more classically Beautiful they are…the more*shrug* worthy they can be.

And for y’all dudes that love them Hot and Boring, God Bless You. More cool women for me.

But this isn’t what today’s post is about.

TODAY’S Post is about how Women have, in the course of embodying a more male style of dating, seemed to start making the same mistakes men make.

Got these dudes walking around thinking their sole responsibility is to be fine.

And MAYBE pay the bill.

Let me know how that works out for y’all.

Because THAT isn’t even working out for dudes, these days.


4 Responses to “Ink-Stained Mondays : More than a Pretty Face”

  1. Jara Says:

    Was this the post or a comment on your post? 😛

    Seriously, though…Shallow is as old as cockroaches and will probably outlast even them. If a person’s values don’t extend to the deep-end of the pool, then great for them. I’d rather the shallow people embrace that about themselves and hunt down a fellow shallow person that be all up in a deep person’s face waxing “philosophical” and “conscious” and “deep”.

    And vice versa. Deep people, have fun trying to eek out an interesting conversation from Mr. or Ms. Cars, Money and Looks over Dinner. I’ve tried and it ain’t pretty.

  2. Jara Says:

    *I’d rather the shallow people embrace that about themselves and hunt down a fellow shallow person THAN be all up in a deep person’s face waxing “philosophical” and “conscious” and “deep”.

  3. Peyso Says:

    I’m lost though.

  4. Tiffany Says:

    Sometimes good looking people can dominate the convesation so that all they get to do is talk about themselves or those shallow things like money and cars. I like intelligence, but not someown treating my as beneath them.


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