I used to take great pride in my level of connection. Despite being a full time student, with a Family and a Fulltime Job, not a lot gets past me.
Lately, I have been Wishing I was less connected.
This whole thing where people Indulge their snark and indulge in Criticism of things that people don’t like. ALL DAY LONG.
It has become a form of entertainment to denigrate. So much so people watch people they CLAIM they wouldn’t spit on if they were on fire on TV for the express purpose of criticizing their every move.
Now MANY folks employ snark as their stock and trade. That is how they get down. Online and Off. They are acutely aware that EVERYONE loves a dogpile, so long as they are not the ones on the bottom. That is part of the game, and I make a habit of avoiding the knocking of another folk’s hustle.
The rest of you? The joiners and those who just kinda see a pile form and decide you might wanna jump on? You do know what you’re doing, right?
That’s a whole lotta negativity ya got there. You know that stuff is highly contagious, right?
The more time you spend clowning and generally being negative, the more your spirit tends to feed off that.
Think I’m playing?
Watch your mood when you snark.
Watch how negativity makes you feel…not so much good, but content.
Watch how you go LOOKING for stuff to snark on…and how disappointed you get when the snark doesn’t just flow immediately.
If you find yourself passing up on stuff you LIKE to seek things you KNOW you won’t just so you can feed your snark monster? Then you have some issues with snark.
Don’t get defensive right away, observe yourself FIRST…well revisit this next Monday.
You know what they say about hit dogs…